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Selling Is the Skill That Advances You

The most expensive business education in the world is being handed out free on Saturday mornings.

A store lead with a tablet helping customers
The opening line

Every year, thousands of people pay eye-watering sums to sit in lecture theatres learning about persuasion, negotiation and consumer psychology. Meanwhile, a nineteen-year-old in a shoe shop is doing all three before her first tea break, and being paid for the privilege. If an economist had designed this arrangement, they'd have been sacked.

Watch her work. A customer picks up a boot, puts it down, picks it up again, sighs. In the next ninety seconds she has to read a total stranger, guess what they actually want (which is rarely what they say they want), earn enough trust to offer an opinion, and survive the very real chance of being told no. The feedback is instant. Either money changes hands or the customer leaves.

The wrong drawer

I suspect we've filed retail in the wrong drawer. We treat it as logistics with a till attached. Stock goes on shelves, customers take it off, someone counts the difference. That's rather like describing a casino as a building with chairs. Strip a shop floor back to what's really going on and it's the purest sales laboratory most people will ever set foot in. Just a human, a decision, and about four seconds to influence it.

The skill that advances you

And selling, much as polite society likes to pretend otherwise, is the skill that advances you. The job interview is a sale. So is the pay rise, the business case, the first date and the annual negotiation over whose family gets Christmas. The people who get ahead are rarely the cleverest in the room. They're the ones who can get the room to say yes.

Which brings us to the delicious irony. Everyone on your floor is practising selling every shift, whether they intend to or not. The only question is whether they're practising well or diligently rehearsing their bad habits. Most of them have no idea they're in training at all. They think they're folding jumpers.

This bit is for the manager

Now, this next bit is for the manager. Floor staff may want to look away.

When you bring in something that makes performance visible, some of your team will hate it. You'll hear that it's micromanagement, that customers aren't a science, that they were doing perfectly well before, thank you very much.

I'd gently suggest that resistance is data. It's a curious law of human nature that people who are genuinely good at something rarely object to a scoreboard. Footballers do not campaign to have the goals removed. It's the ones who've been coasting who prefer a little fog, because fog is wonderfully democratic. In fog, a brilliant shift and a mediocre one look exactly the same.

That doesn't make the grumblers villains. Some of it is nerves, and nerves are a confidence problem you can coach. But the pushback is where the conversation starts. It is not a reason to end it.

Your name on the numbers

Because here's the bit nobody puts on the motivational posters. The numbers have your name on them, not theirs. When conversion falls off a cliff, head office does not ring the lovely casual who works Tuesdays. It rings you. Your neck is on the line, which seems a reasonable basis for wanting to know what's actually happening on your floor. That is what it is.

The kindest thing you can do for a team is not to keep them comfortable. Comfort is a lovely feature in a sofa and fatal in a career. Hand them a skill instead, one that follows them out the door and into every room they'll ever walk into.

Some of them will hate it for a month. The good ones will thank you for a decade.
Trinity Merwyn
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Trinity Merwyn

Trinity Merwyn helps retail teams sell better for a living. Six years, a lot of shop floors, and a soft spot for retailers who are excited to get savvy and grow with data.

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